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Lady of the month Find-Bride.com
Greetings to Miss August!
Alla , 22 years old
Profile: 40471 Alla
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I am so glad to be the lady of the month.
So I would like to discuss with you my 2 week stay on the dating site. I would like to share with you both a negative and a positive experience. So, let's go!

Pros of use:
1. The dating site is ideal for busy people. My phone is always at hand and I can view the profiles of men, respond to letters or chat. Unfortunately, my work schedule is very tight, so the time for web chat is sorely lacking.
2. If you are worried about your appearance, the dating site will solve this problem. You will receive letters only from those people who genuinely like you.
3. Very often men pay attention only to my seductive appearance, therefore in virtual communication you can recognize a person much better than when he is staring at your "eyes".
4. In the first letter, a person manifests himself by 90% and it will become clear whether you should continue to communicate with him.
5. Virtual communication makes your search much easier and more productive. After reading the profile of a person, you can understand whether there are common goals and interests, what a person is looking for and what he aspires to.
6. Despite the fact that you are looking for a soul mate, during the search you can raise the level of your English and make friends!

What I hate in virtual dating:
1. I hate letters in which men declare love to me from the first line. Gentlemen, do you really think that I would believe in this nonsense?
2. The large size of your property is of little interest to me. Stop sending me your vulgar photos! I am going to live with a real partner. When was the large size the basis of family happiness? Maybe in sex, but it is not accurate.
3. Do not invite me to come to visit you in the first letter. Men, come on. Do you really think that everything is so bad in my life that I will run after a man to the ends of the earth? Maybe I'm looking for a real gentleman who can conquer me?
4. Men who blame their negative previous experience. Do you really think that I am wondering what happened before me?
5. Men who ask for my contact information in the first letter because they do not have the ability to communicate through the site. Do you really think that if I sit in a restaurant and a man comes to me and asks for my phone number, I certainly should give it just because I'm looking for a man? Perhaps it is worth thinking about the fact that Mom taught not to communicate with strangers. And you are strangers for me in the first stages.
6. Men who believe that I should run on Skype to show them my reality and what I do not earn on the site! I'm sorry, what? Do I make money on the site? I think I've missed something. I am on the site only 2 weeks. Before that, I visited 14 countries and live the life of which I have always dreamed and can afford. Really, after I registered on the site, my life has changed dramatically and I bought a Bentley? I have a lot of men in the black list. I hope I answered your question?
7. Freaks, sick on the head, married. This is a separate caste of personalities. This information can not be verified. Once a letter came from a man who had perfect family profile photos. He said that he would love me to the grave only if I got pregnant from my father! Whaaaat?! My father died! You need to be treated and not to look for the second half. Married ones, do not write me, I am looking for only a serious relationship. I'm sure we will not make friends with your wife.
8. Men who tell how much money they spend on the site. I am not interested. I mean, I'm not interested at all. It's your problems. I am looking here for a husband and for me it is free and I do not want to know how much this site costs you. If you can not afford it, then how can you afford to have a wife?
9. Men who shout that I did not find their letter or did not respond in time. Do you really think that I have no other life than answering your letters? I have very very many incoming letters. I think there is no problem to remind about yourself again. If I answered you, then you are interesting to me. Calm down!
10. Total lies. I'm against it. I do not communicate only with you and I do not love you but I think you are nice. And yes, I am looking for a man and that is why I have to choose and communicate, communicate and choose, blacklist. My search is real and I am real. If you tell me about your eternal love, is it even possible in the virtual world?
11. Meeting! Everyone wants it. The final. I haven't had it yet. But I am surprised by men who believe that they have a relationship with a woman whom they have never seen?!
12. Men who fell into the hands of scam temptresses. I sincerely feel sorry for you. If you think that only men are asked for money. You're wrong. Recently, an African American wrote to me asking to send him $500 because he lives among veterans and wants to change this situation. If a girl at the first meeting asks to buy her a new iPhone, does it really affect your relationship? If a girl thinks that she urgently needs money and you are the only one who will save her, isn't this a lie? You know there is a way out - tell the site administration about it. Her profile will be deleted. Do not close your eyes. These girls are fraudsters and other men can be their victims. Only if you do not stop them!!!

So, I voiced some obvious facts about my 2 week use of a dating site. Negatives turned out to be 2 times more because men do not always look for what they indicate in their profiles.
I would like to share this experience with you. Perhaps you will continue my challenge and tell us about your impressions? I am sure it will be very interesting.
Your Alla

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Rare beauty, rare love
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Hello and thanks for reading my blog. There are so many thoughts in my head but i will try to keep this blog short. I have traveled to the Ukraine and Russia to see my male friends...guys like brothers to me and that is how i found the amazing beauty of the ladies there. I live on an island where tourists come for just the summer. About 4000 Work and Travel students come every summer. I met my friends when they came here and so in good tradition they invited me to their home countries. I am sure they had many friends that promised to travel there but none actually did it. Well i did. First to Siberia in January of 2013. Cold is not rhe proper word for Novokuznetsk. North of Novosibirsk is already cold but -39c is indeed a chilling experience. I swam in the Kondoma river more as a dare and to represent the American spirit of adventure. I am 100% certain that 99% of the people i met there had never seen an American. At the bank i was the topic of great discussion as they passed my passport to each other to view. I began to see a rare beauty in the women there. A real passion for loving their men struck me as rare also. Family seemed important to them and so when i traveled to the Ukraine i expected the same. One big difference was that Ukrainian.women were more beautiful. How is it possible to perfect perfection? Really...the beautiful women i had met in Russia were really hot but the Ukrainian women were even more beautiful. Still it leaves a decent man wondering how to approach such rare beauty. How is this possible? Scammers have polluted the experience of a man traveling to meet his future bride. And old men and foreign men have polluted the mind of the women there with their behavior...as if sex tourism is a game for old rich men. So here it becomes a game of chess really. You have willing men and willing women all scared to be taken advantage of. Distance is the ONE and ONLY issue keeping us all apart. What if we all had webcams for serious dating by serious men and women. I don't mean for old perverts to ask for nudity and lingerie but to just talk About life. I.don't know about the other.men on this site but i have never EVER had to pay to meet a woman. I dont consider myself like Brad Pitt or George Clooney but i am just average enough to have found pretty and smart women to date. I am divorced so that shows that i failed at something. I dont know what that is yet but i know that loneliness has taught me to keep searching for where i failed. Beautiful women sending average men messages about love and passion in their first2 or 3 letters is not normal but then i also have been to Russia and the Ukraine and i remember that it's quite normal for beautiful women to dress in a way that attracts men. Maybe it's because we are not from the Ukraine that women want us? I don't know yet. I know rare women require rare attention and care. That is what makes this online dating so hard. Women that have rare beauty do require attention. They want to be seen and told about their beauty because they take pride in themselves...they take time to be seen by the world and to walk to work or in their city or tiny town. This is just what my experience has been. My spirit of adventure and u guess my view on romance is old fashioned. Instead of sitting online, i say just pack your suitcase and go where your heart pulls you. Sometimes your heart will pull you toward just the adventure as it did for me but i also found in those adventures always helped me meet new friends. Those friends always had some other friend that was single and alone and ready. Foolishly i didn't take the opportunity to adventure with the women i met. Maybe i didnt want them to think i came to their corner of the world to just have sex and leave. I didn't want them to think i came all the way to wherever they lived to drink like their men do and then aggressively take them to bed like their men do. Now here i am like many other normal men looking for someone to be with me on the days when i am not at my best. We can all have a good day and show it but standing by someone on a bad day is what tests who we really are. So if you are reading this and have some experience like mine please comment for everyone to read. I have been to Novosibirsk and Novokuznetsk and then also to Kiev, Kharkov, Evpatoria, and then Lviv. Lviv was so beautiful and very welcoming. January 2019 i will travel back to Lviv to see my friends Vlad and Maria and Anna and her husband Alex. These married couples always invite me to come back.....but this trip i want to meet someone to be serious with. I hope to meet her on this site and then meet her when i travel to the.Ukraine. I will travel to meet her and then i hope she will travel to meet my friends and to pass their tests and high standards for me. For that i am grateful. I have these friends to keep me from going astray and falling for beauty alone. There are lots of beautiful women here but i hope to find a smart, loyal, funny, selfless pretty woman. This is like mission impossible and i am sure every man and woman here feel the same. I will write again if you respond and add to this dialogue if you like. Thanks Andy


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