Hello. My name is Olesya and I'm immensely happy that I was chosen as the girl of the month!
To be honest, I did not expect that this could happen to me. I just wrote about my feelings, about what is happening in my soul. I am doubly pleased that some men supported me. I am very grateful to them for friendly advice and nice words, but still I came to this site because I want to find my happiness, my love, my future husband. I believe in fate, and it seems to me that this site will help me reunite with my loved one. My soul is full of tenderness, and I flutter like a butterfly looking for its most delicious flower. I feel that a little more, and I will reach my goal, and I will find what I have been looking for so long.
If to speak about me, then I am a simple girl who took a risk in spite of everything to start life anew. I work, relax, enjoy and just live. I try to spend every day as if he were the last, I try to catch every breath of the wind, and inhale it fully. I crave adventure, as I crave love, and I am open to everything new. Today I can wander in the woods in search of the largest mushroom clearing, and tomorrow I with great pleasure spend the whole day lying on the couch with my favorite book. All that I do depends on my mood, and on what kind of person is next to me. Adventures? Yes, this is for me. My dream at the moment is to jump from a parachute, since I already tried bungee jumping. There are millions of interesting activities in the world that appeal to me, and in my head there is a huge list of things to do before the end of my life.
I really decided to change myself and my environment and therefore I am ready for anything in order to finally find female happiness. I am looking for a man who would share with me all my desires and hobbies, who would understand and support me. I want to become a guiding star for him, I dream of wrapping him with care and tenderness, preparing the most delicious dishes for him, and waking him with aromatic coffee every morning. I am sure that as soon as I see him and his eyes, I will immediately understand that this is exactly my lost half of my soul.
I am very glad to write this appeal now, because there is a small chance that it will be read by the very man whom fate had prepared for me!
Who’s life is easier? Man’s or woman’s life? Had you ever think about it? I heard a discussion of this topic in one TV show and it was very interesting. A lot of women think that the life of a woman is very difficult but I believe that men have a lot of problems too. In general, I respect men because they overcome many obstacles every day but I also know that there are a lot of stereotypes which does not allow to man to live a happy life. I will give you a few examples and you will understand what I am talking about. People think that it's not good if man cry. They think that if he will do it then he will show his weakness. It's not good for man to ask for help. It's not good for man to confess to himself that the situation is not under his control. There are much more examples of restrictions. I don’t know why or who created it but it works. Lots of men live under pressure of stereotypes and opinion of other people so it may be a reason for such a huge amount of heart attacks and other problems with health. I would like this situation to change in the nearest future. I want a man to be free inside, i want him to be happy and healthy. He may cry if he wants to, he may ask for help if he needs it. There is nothing bad about it. A man should be able to show what he feels this moment. There are a lot of women who like sensitive and romantic men. And I am not an exception. A man should not be perfect to people who surround him, he should be perfect for his woman and it's only thing what matters.