" hi) can we chat over a Cup of coffee?" This question and the offer at the same time we used to hear more often from men as the first step to acquaintance with the girl. So it was always earlier, and became habitual. But times change, and now we can hear it from the girl. Now the first girl can take the initiative and call a man on a date, the first to meet, come up with a proposal for a Cup of coffee. Of course, only brave ladies do this, because we still have the attitude that a man should be the first to take the initiative, the first to achieve his woman. But what do men think about this? I asked a lot of people , and you know, they would be happy if women were the first to take the initiative! It would simplify a lot of things, men claim. And here I fully agree. it would make things easier. But is it worth a woman to break forward and be the first everywhere?