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Darya , 38 years old
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She walks a street alone and returns home where a beloved man does not wait for her. She walks a park and sees lots of happy couples. Eyes of partners shine with happiness and love. It makes her sad and she starts to think of her life. She has a successful career and true friends, she has lots of hobbies and her life is very active. But all these things can not fill a whole in her heart. Her need is to feel the flame of love, her need is to give all the good things she has. She likes to listen to the singing of birds in the morning and she adores beautiful sunsets. It would be great to share wonderful moments with a special man. Hello to all the people who read this. This is Darya. All the things which were said above are true things which I wrote from the bottom of my heart. My dream is to find a man whom I will love as much as he will love me. I want my life to be turned into a happy life time journey which will be full of happy moments. Years will pass and we will grow old together. But our hearts will be young just like the hearts of kids. Love heals, love motivates, love makes us feel alive. And I am sure that I will reach my goal because my belief and hope are really strong.

Improving is impossible without accepting
id: 38444

Why can`t we accept ourselves? It`s a very serious question actually. Many people can`t accept themselves who they are. Why? We all have some bad features which we are not proud of. We either smoke or drink too much, or swear. May be we have too much weight and our shape is not ideal. May be we become too angry at times, can`t control ourselves. There can be other reasons why you don`t accept yourself. In general there can be different bad values which you have. You don`t like them. You won`t to get rid of it. And that`s why you don`t want to identify yourself with these features. But it`s you actually! You can`t avoid this. It`s you how can`t control your emotions for instance. Noone else. So it would be fair and honest to confess in it and to accept this - to accept all of you in all your variety. "But wait! - you can say - you propose me to accept the features which I won`t to get rid of it, I don`t want to be such person anymore and you propose to...what?...just accept and live further?" No, I don`t propose that. Not at all. I will give you an example from my life. I`ve always taken care of my shape and my weight. It was always important for me to look good in my eyes and of course in the eyes of other people. After I gave birth to a child my figure has noticeably spoilt. Tummy and sides became bigger and not so smooth as they used to be. For a long time I refused to identify myself with this new image of me. I hated this and said "this is not me - I`m still that thin and graceful 18 y o girl." But once I went to the bathroom, turned away from the mirron as I`ve already got used to do. Suddenly I thought - "no, I have to see". I`ve stodden in front of the mirror, undressed totally and looked at myself. I saw my body in all the details with all imperfections and excess fat. I told myself "This is me now. This is what I`ve became. I am not guilty of it. I gave birth to a child and that influenced my body in a bad way but do I know how to fix it? Do I know how can I improve that?" And once I agreed with reality and stopped rejecting myself I started to work on a keeping fit plan. I searched for the good programm of exercizes and good fitness trainers who could help. I worked on my every day shedule in order to find free time for exercize. I started to work on myself and with time I realized that my shape is really improving to best. So the morality. Stop avoiding the truth. Confess yourself in everything - in what you like or dislike in yourself. And then start imrpoving that. Improving without accepting is impossible.